THOSE WHO WANT IT, NOT THOSE WHO NEED IT.
Honest Desire In the first bloom of sobriety, many recovering people confront drinking companions who also “need” the program. They’re often surprised and disillusioned when efforts to help their friends are rejected – sometimes curtly.
We’re truly limited to helping those who desire recovery, not those who we think need it. Though intervention methods can be effective we’re still largely helpless to assist those who don’t desire recovery.
We regret that we really have no answers for the millions who perish from alcoholism, unaware of their problem. We also can hold out little hope that any future recovery attempts will succeed without the individual alcoholic’s cooperation.
Desire – a personal determination and decision- is necessary for almost any kind of change. We have the freedom to choose in many areas of our lives, and alcoholics must eventually choose recovery in order to find and maintain it.
Though I’d love to see others recover, I must accept the fact that their personal desire and choice is necessary. I’ll remember this if any opportunities arise today to carry the message.
I WILL FOCUS ON CHANGING
MYSELF AND ENTRUST THOSE
I LOVE TO THE HIGHER POWER
WHO LOVES THEM EVEN
MORE THAN I DO.
HAVE A GREAT DAY!