RAISING THE FRUSTRATION THRESHOLD
Achievement What happens when we hit snags in our lives? In drinking, it was a common practice to chuck everything and just get drunk. This always made things worse, sometimes so much so that we forgot about the problem that triggered our frustration.
Dealing with frustration is another part of growing up emotionally. Self-understanding in sobriety will help us detect surges of anger and irritation when things aren’t going as planned. We’ll recognize these feelings as being the same emotions that plagued us in our drinking days.
In sobriety, however, we are given choices. We actually do have the choice of pausing, letting the anger drain away and then taking charge of the situation by knowing that God is working along with us. By doing this, we can eventually raise our threshold of frustration.
If some task or issue makes me angry today, I’ll back off and place the outcome in God’s hands. I’ll know this is working when I have a change in feeling about it.
OUR ARCH-ENEMY, ANGER
COMES DISGUISED IN MANY SHAPES AND COLORS,
INTOLERANCE, FRUSTRATION, CONTEMPT,
SNOBBISHNESS, RIGIDITY, TENSION, SARCASM,
DISTRUST, ANXIETY, ENVY, HATRED, DISCONTENT,
SELF-PITY, MALICE, SUSPICION, JEALOUSY.
DO I LET MY FEELINGS GET THE BEST OF ME?
HAVE A GREAT DAY!